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About the Author: Melanie, and her husband, Trent, have been ZPC members since 2023. Together they have a young daughter, Ella (4) and Melanie has two step children, Madelynn (20) and Max (15). Melanie serves as a first term Deacon, while also serving on the Daddy Daughter Dance Committee, in the Littles Ministry, VBS, and more. This has truly shaped her faith, bringing her closer to God. The biggest blessing for their family has been Thursday nights, building strong friendship bonds in their Home Group.

To you, O Lord, I lift up my soul. O my God, in you I trust; let me not be put to shame; let not my enemies exult over me. (Psalm 25:1-2, ESV)

As a busy working mom, wife, and parent to a spirited 4-year-old daughter, the Christmas season can feel like a whirlwind. From shopping for gifts, decorating the house, moving the Elf (if you know you know) and preparing for family gatherings to managing work responsibilities and tending to your child’s excitement over the holidays, it’s easy to feel like you are burning the candle at both ends. Advent, however, reminds us to pause and refocus on what truly matters: preparing our hearts for Jesus.

Psalm 25 is a perfect guide for this season of busyness. David’s prayer begins with surrender: “To you, O Lord, I lift up my soul.” Even in the hustle and bustle, lifting your soul to God can be a grounding act. It doesn’t have to be elaborate. A brief prayer while hanging Christmas ornaments, a moment of gratitude during your morning routine, or even singing a Christmas carol with your child can become an offering to God.

In verses 4-5, David prays, “Make me to know your ways, O Lord; teach me your paths. Lead me in your truth and teach me.” As you navigate your family’s to-do list (which feels longer every year), this is an invitation to let God guide you. Ask him to show you what’s truly important. Maybe it’s okay if the cookies aren’t perfect, your wrapping isn’t that of a department store, or if one less thing gets crossed off the list. What matters is the love and joy shared in your home.

David also reflects on God’s steadfast love and mercy (v. 6-7). When you feel overwhelmed or imperfect—the holiday Chex mix doesn’t get made, your kid throws a tantrum, or the house isn’t Instagram-worthy—remember that God’s love is not based on your ability to get it all done. His grace covers you and his love sustains you in your busiest moments.

As Advent draws us toward Christmas, remember that God’s faithfulness and grace is the ultimate gift. He meets you in the chaos of your Christmas to-dos and offers peace that surpasses understanding.

Suggested Activity

1. Pause to Pray – In the midst of your busy day, pause for even 30 seconds to lift your praises and/or worries up to God. Say, “Lord, guide me in Your ways today.”
2. Simplify and Prioritize – Look at your holiday to-do list and ask, “What truly honors God and blesses my family?” Let go of unnecessary stress. This is easier said than done.
3. Invite God into the Chaos – Pray together as a family, whether it’s at bedtime, while decorating, or before meals. Teach your child about the meaning of Advent through simple acts of worship. We have made it a routine to talk about what we are thankful for each day at dinner time, which keeps our family connected to God and each other.
4. Celebrate God’s Faithfulness – Reflect on the ways God has guided and loved your family this year, and let that gratitude shape your perspective.

Prayer

Lord, in the busyness of this Christmas season, I lift my soul to you. Teach me to walk your paths and guide me through the chaos of to-do lists, work, and family life. Help me focus on what truly matters: Your steadfast love and the gift of Jesus. Grant me peace in my heart and joy in my home, and let my family experience your presence as we prepare to celebrate Jesus’ birth.
In your name we pray, Amen.

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